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Monday, 14 August 2006

Words from a wise old woman

Images35Ah well, maybe not so old. And definitely not very wise. But I survived my first year of MBA and hope that the following might be useful to some of the first year's starting soon (thanks to AngelAngie, who suffered through part of my sermon below already).

Take it easy. This is the most important advice I can give you. Take it easy. Don't rush into things. Don't sign up for every single club. Don't volunteer to be president of a million clubs. Don't expect to know every single detail about every single thing right away. Things happen as and when you need them. On a need to know basis. Go with the flow and see where it takes you. It's one hell of a ride, this MBA thing, sit back, close your eyes and enjoy it!

Don't take it easy. Yes, I know that contradicts the first one. But you need to find a balance between taking it easy and making the most out of your time here. Try and get an idea of what it is that you want to get out of your MBA (think back to those awful essays if you have to). Is it to learn, to network, to have fun, or a combination? What matters most? For me it's most important to learn and to only do things that I love doing. Not like doing, but love doing. Figure it out before the rollercoaster ride starts, and you'll know what experiences to look out for and which ones to participate in.

Buy books only when you have to. They're expensive, they're heavy and they're a pain to have when you're moving. And most of the time, you might not need them. I bought a couple of the textbooks, for a number of reasons: Finance because I know I need to revisit that at one point because there's no way that I could remember that all in one go, Strategy because I think that in my lifetime I will not be able to remember all 5 of Porter's 5 Forces, Financial Accounting because I completely did not get it the first time round (and because it's heavy enough to function as a doorstop) etc. Try out the books first by getting them from the library, and if you think they're useful, only then buy them.  Best place to buy books in London: online (obviously) and on Charing Cross Road at either Borders, Blackwells, or my favourite Foyles, who'll all have discounts in September.

Don't take too many electives. First year core courses are heavy, especially when you're also looking for an internship, running around being involved with clubs etc. Think twice before taking more than one elective on top of your normal core curriculum. I thought twice, decided to take on two electives in Summer term, and struggled to cope with the workload (although I'm also glad I took both courses, they're proving to come in handy now).

Have fun. Don't forget to have fun. It's only an MBA, it's not real life. No one will get hurt if you pass a course with a B instead of an A (thanks to the wonders of grade nondisclosure). Enjoy everything that London has to offer. Go and travel, explore and remember there's a whole world out there. Get to know people. Hang out. Read. Do nothing. And enjoy.

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Isn't it strange to think that we're now the wise old 2nd years, here to guide our 1st year classmates and make their transition easier?

I'm glad I'm going to Japan :)

Great advice! :) Not only for school, but for life too :)

Thanks for your good advice! Very useful and sounds like you also have the best time in your life while you're studying for an MBA.

Guess I need to buy another book then - The Divine Miss N's guide to surviving the MBA? :) Good stuff!!

Thanks for the advice (always good to hear it twice!). I especially like "take it easy" and "don't take it easy" :-).

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Happiness

  • 'For a long time it seemed to me that life was about to begin - real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life. This perspective has helped me to see there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So treasure every moment you have and remember that time waits for no one.' [Souza]

1001 things to do before I die

  • 143. See the Giant's Causeway in Ireland
  • 142. Go to a cricket match
    Done, well kinda. Saw a 2 20\20 matches: Scotland vs South Africa and England vs Pakistan (June 2009)
  • 141. Dine at El Bulli
  • 140. See and hear Lyle Lovett live
    Did this March 21st 2009. Oh my, oh my, what a treat! In my top 3 of best concerts ever.
  • 139. See an opera in the Metropolitan Opera
  • 138. See an opera at La Scala
  • 137. Visit Dr Johnson's house
  • 136. Buy my own webdomain
    Done.
  • 135. Visit Himeji
    Done. Impressive. Recommended.
  • 134. Read Crime and Punishment
    Along with GS, let's see who finishes it first :-)
  • 133. See Bruce Springsteen live in concert
    Did this 18/06/08, in A'dam. And oh my Lord. Bruce. Rocks. Best. concert. ever.
  • 132. Go to Ireland
  • 131. Go to Greece
  • 130. See the Taj Mahal in real life
  • 129. Visit all the Dutch waddeneilanden
    Got a long way to go on this one, I've only ever been to Ameland.
  • 128. Go to the Fotomuseum in Rotterdam
  • 127. Become a fellow of the RSA
  • 126. Go to the Barbican
    Been wanting to do this for a long time, finally got round to it in Okt 2007. I didn't get lost.
  • 125. Read something by Brett Easton Ellis
  • 124. Read War and Peace
  • 123. Get my motorcycle license
    I've dreamt of doing this ever since I was 10 or 11. One day...
  • 122. Renew my British Library reader's ticket
    Done. I went in, they found my old reader's number, and within 5 minutes I had a new reader's ticket. The BL's one of my favorite places in London, I love the quietness and calmness of it.
  • 121. Become a member of the London Library
  • 120. Drink champagne at the Champagne bar at St Pancras
  • 119. Go to an opera at the Royal Opera House
    Did this March 1st 2009, Rigoletto. And oh man, what an experience. The theatre is beautiful, and the singing so touching, I had tears in my eyes. Highly recommended.
  • 118. Go to Exmouth Market
  • 117. Go to a BBC Proms concert
    Did this in July 2007 for the first time, and it was absolutely magical. Listened to a French Baroque requiem mass which was angelic, and to the Soweto Buskaid String Ensemble who brought the house down.
  • 116. Dance tango in Argentina
  • 115. Take a singing lesson
  • 114. Go to Teheran
  • 113. See a play at the Globe theatre
  • 112. Take a sculpting class
    Taking my cue from Mr W.
  • 111. Ride a Harley Davidson
  • 110. Visit the Rijksmuseum in Amsterdam (again)
  • 109. Go to all 50 states in the US
    Working on it. So far: New York, New Jersey, Virginia, Kentucky, Mississippi, Texas, Arizona, New Mexico, California, Washington, Illinois, D.C., Utah, Louisiana, North Carolina, Illinois
  • 108. Visit Bhutan
  • 107. Take the Creativity and Personal Mastery course
    Did it in SUM 07 term. Loved it, this is the elective that will have the most impact in my life.
  • 106. Find my purpose in life
    On my way. Maybe that IS the purpose
  • 105. Learn how to draw
  • 104. Put together my family's cookbook
  • 103. Write a good short story
  • 102. Become an expert in something
  • 101. Go to Spitalfields market
    I've been, but never really properly. Now that my job is close to there though, I figure I should make more of an effort.
  • 100. Go to Dallas
    Done, Sept 2008. Loved it. Everything IS bigger in TX! Loved the Dallas Museum of Art, the Museum of Modern Art in Ft Worth, tex mex food, the Kimbell museum, the Half Price bookstores, driving around in my convertible, the Sixth Floor museum.
  • 99. Go to the Hermitage museum in St Petersburg
  • 98. Go to the Tower of London
  • 97. Take a trip on the Reunification Express in Vietnam
  • 96. Go on a retreat in a convent
  • 95. Go to the UK Houses of Parliament
  • 94. See the Himalayas
  • 93. Go to El Escorial
  • 92. Interrail through Europe
  • 91. Go to Toledo
  • 90. Go to Salamanca
  • 89. Go to the Fondation Henri Cartier-Bresson in Paris
  • 88. Go to Dulwich Picture Gallery
  • 87. Make my own ice cream
  • 86. Make my own dulce de leche
    Tried this, with mixed results. It turned out to be more.. ehm.. solid than it was supposed to be. But tasted good nonetheless.
  • 85. Ride the Shinkansen train in Japan
    Done. It's awesome!
  • 84. Go to Angkor Wat
  • 83. Travel to Vietnam
  • 82. Learn (more) tai chi
  • 81. Go to Iona
  • 80. Run a 10K race
    Did it July 15th 2007. Am too embarassed to post a time, but I finished and absolutely loved it, so I'll train some more and some another one.
  • 79. Watch the London Marathon in person, not just on TV
    Did this in 2007, wow, it was amazing! Runners had written their names on their race-tops and people in the audience were cheering everyone on by name. It rocked.
  • 78. Go to Hay-on-Wye
    Done, Jan 09. Loved it. Set in beautiful Welsh countryside, it's bookstore after bookstore, what more could I want! I have to go back and explore some more. Highly recommended.
  • 77. Go to the Tate Britain
    Did this in July 2007 for the How We Are: Photographing Britain exhibit and I loved it. What a beautiful museum! I'm quite partial to the Tate Modern building, but the Tate Britain gets a two thumbs up! Great shop, wonderful building, love the Turners.
  • 76. Ride (fly?) on the London Eye
    Did this in 2006 and was surprised to find out that the dome above the British Museum is really a dome... somehow I thought it was a flat roof!
  • 75. Go to Books for Cooks bookstore in London
    Did it and I was amazed. So many cookbooks, so many recipes, so little time...
  • 74. Have tea at the Dorchester
  • 73. Go to Chile
  • 72. Go to the Frick in New York
  • 71. Go to the Guggenheim in Bilbao
  • 70. Go to Graceland
  • 69. Catalogue all the books in my library
  • 68. Go to Sydney
  • 67. Go to Seattle
    Did it in Nov 2006 and it was wet!! Some great chocolate shops though (Dilettante and Fran's were my favourites), the Snoquamie Falls were gorgeous, loved Pike Place Market, and the Elliott Bay Bookstore on Pioneer Square is great (esp the secondhand section).
  • 66. Become financially independent
  • 65. Design my own house
  • 64. Fall madly in love again
    Swept off my feet. Magic.
  • 63. Live in a house on the beach
  • 62. Live in New York
    Did it in autumn 2006 and loved it. What a city!
  • 61. Visit the MoMa in New York
    Did it for the first time in Oct 2006, on Target Free Fridays (between 4 and 8pm). Loved it, but it was too crowded. Was esp impressed with the Andy Warhol paintings and the photography section.
  • 60. Go to Boston
  • 59. Go to Montreal
  • 58. Visit Toronto
  • 57. Visit Sir John Soane's Museum
  • 56. Visit Vancouver
  • 55. Take a photography course and learn how to properly use my SLR
  • 54. Own a Le Creuset pan
  • 53. Visit Berlin
  • 52. Visit Savannah
  • 51. Take the train across Canada
  • 50. Learn how to surf
  • 49. Visit the Hermitage museum in St Petersburg
  • 48. Start my own company
  • 47. Drive across Canada
  • 46. Visit Capetown
  • 45. Learn how to play guitar
  • 44. Learn how to play bandoneon
  • 43. Own an espresso machine
  • 42. See the Northern Lights
  • 41. Drink champagne in Champagne
  • 40. Visit India
    Dec 08, went to Delhi, it was love at first sight. Can't wait to go back to India.
  • 39. Visit Andalusia
  • 38. Go to the North Sea Jazz Festival
    Did this in the summer of 2005 with a dear friend and it rocked. Jamie Cullum and Solomon Burke were my favourites.
  • 37. Be part of the audience on an Oprah show
  • 36. Visit New England in autumn
  • 35. Visit Tibet
  • 34. Learn how to sail
  • 33. Take a writing course
  • 32. Grow herbs from seed
  • 31. Bake the perfect (or pretty good) chocolate cake
  • 30. Publish my travelbook (see 29)
  • 29. Write a travelbook
  • 28. Travel on the Orient Express
  • 27. Eat a Thai meal in Thailand
  • 26. Visit the Guggenheim museum in New York
    Did this in December 2006. Loved the building, although the lack of places to sit was a downside.
  • 25. Visit Pierpont Morgan Library in New York
    Done it, liked it, brought back many happy thoughts of my book historian days, his study and especially library are uber-tacky ;-)
  • 24. Visit Glasgow
  • 23. Visit Venice
  • 22. See the Dutch queen in person
    Did this on April 30th 2005, with my parents, and our queen looked fab.
  • 21. Visit the Keukenhof
    Did this with my friend M and was impressed. So many flowers, so little time to photograph 'em all...
  • 20. Take an arthistory course
  • 19. Drive an Audi TT
  • 18. Drive a Dodge Viper
  • 17. Walk to Rome from my parents' house
  • 16. Take a photography course
  • 15. Take a silkscreen printing course
  • 14. Visit the Louvre
    Did that in April 2006 and loved it!
  • 13. Visit every Rubens painting in public collections
    Working on it...
  • 12. Teach a part-time course
  • 11. Travel from Moscow to Beijing on the Transmongolian Express
  • 10. Visit all London zone 1 tube stations in one day
  • 9. Visit Kyoto
    June 2009. Stayed in a proper renovated machiya, saw geiko and maiko, amazing stuff.
  • 8. Visit Tokyo again
  • 7. Visit the Forbidden City in Beijing
  • 6. Learn to speak Spanish
  • 5. Take a pilates class
    Done it, and liked it!
  • 4. Take a yoga class
    Doing it, and love it :-)
  • 3. Visit the Prado Museum in Madrid
  • 2. Learn how to cook Thai food properly
  • 1. Eat a Michelin star meal
    Done. A lovely, wonderful tasting menu at The Square in London. Definitely got a taste for Michelin stars :-)

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About me

  • I'm Dutch, currently live in London (a city that has stolen my heart) and I drink my tea with lots of milk, no sugar thanks. Qualified Anglophile, book historian and MBA from LBS; currently studying for an MA in Design Studies at Central St Martin's. Bit of a travel-addict (both the armchair and real life variety), geekgirl, art lover, serious book-a-holic and an incurable foodie. I think serendipity is one of the most beautiful words in the English language, have a thing for the Fifties, and a talent for finding bookstores in any place I find myself in. If after all this you want to find out even more, check out natasjagiezen.org.

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